A Big Month for a Big Boy

Wow! Sam is 6 months old (as of June 14th.) The last month has brought a ton of changes for him!

-He sprouted his first two teeth (bottom left, then right)

- Learned to sit up.

- Can hold and examine toys and get them to his mouth, also transfer from hand to hand (this, combined with sitting, makes for wonderful play times for him!)

-Started solid foods which he devours without spilling more then a drop or two. So far he has had sweet potatoes, pears, and carrots. He has eaten all three with equal eagerness. I love how he opens his mouth and sometimes sticks his tongue out for another bite!

-He has begun holding his arms out to the sides when he wants to be picked up. It is one of the cutest things I've ever seen. If I ask him if he wants "up" he'll hold out his arms and wait for me to get him. Adorable I must say!

-He has gotten a little habit of slapping his right hand on his leg, or high chair tray, or whatever is there. It's really funny.

I took him to his 6 month appointment last Monday and his stats are as follows: 20 pounds 4 ounces (90%), 27 inches (75%), head is 43 cm (25%.) I asked the doctor if it's bad for his head to be so small compared to his body. She said that because he has followed the same growth curve and is meeting his milestones there is no reason to worry! While he still has some flatness to his head we are still waiting on the helmet because it has gotten better. His doctor doesn't think he'll need one at all!

Sam Playing

Sam is loving his excersaucer! I love how he pounds it with his fist to get the music to play! A few seconds before he was squealing tons and tons the way he does in the middle of this video but of course he stopped when I pulled out the camera:)

Notes on a 5 Month Old

My darling boy is now 5 months old and he is just bursting with cuteness! He laughs (especially at Kate) oohs and ahhs with increasing loudness, rolls both ways, can pivot around on his tummy, has the beginnings of an inch worm army crawl, loves his exersaucer, trembles with excitement when he sees an interesting toy, wants to stand not sit, is sleeping 100% of the time on his tummy and still wakes up around 6am to eat even after a 10:30pm feeding, weighs a whopping 19 pounds (according to my home scale which has always been very accurate to what he weighs at the pedi), is growing attached to a "lovey" and snuggles it SO sweetly, adores his daddy and so many more precious things!

This brother and sister are starting to really love each other! It is so precious to see.

Kisses from Kate!

Most of these pictures are from last weeks beach trip to New Smyrna, Fl. Sam really liked the water both of the ocean and the pool. He was super comfy thanks to this adorable bathing suit from his Greataunt Allie!

David was holding his hands down in the picture below because he is constantly chewing on his fingers these days. I think his bottom front teeth might be coming in! He would beat his sister to first teeth by 3 months if he does!

I was able to upload a video of his laughter!

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I finished a post today that I started two weeks ago about what God showed me through some of the events with Kate. For some reason Blogger published it to the date I wrote it on, not that I posted it on. If you want to read it you can scroll down to the April 4th entry entitled "Walking in the Valley"

Slammer Sammer

Sam turned 4 months old on the 14th! To me the 4 month mark begins the next stage of babyhood. You start to think about things like solid food (not until 6 months), sitting up, playing with toys. Bigger baby stuff:)

I took him to his 4 month appointment this morning and he is growing well! He weighed in at 16 lbs 12 oz which put him in the 80%. He was 26.5 inches long which is in the 93%. And his poor head is still lagging way behind in the 10%! Although, I don't think the nurse measured it quite right. I think it's a bit bigger then that. He does still have some "pronounced flatness" of his head according to Dr. P. She said it will not effect him except cosmetically and so we are going to wait until 6 months before making a decision about whether or not he should get a helmet (ugh!) If you think of it, will you pray with me that God would cause his head to round out correctly in the next 2 months?

I picked the title for this post because "Slammer" is the nickname my dad has given to Sam and David and I have been calling him Sammer lately. He also gets called Sambo, Budster, Samson, and Chicken Little by various people:)

Sam is lots of fun these days! He has become quite a conversational "cooer". If I make gurggling sounds to him he will make them back to me and smile. He chuckles now if I play peek-a-boo with him and he loves for us to "eat" his neck/belly/face while making silly sounds. He is rolling tummy to back and even rolled back to tummy once during "naked time" the other day! He is staring to bat at and grasp toys and LOVES chewing on his hands including sucking on his right thumb for a few seconds at times (come on buddy!) He is quite wiggly and wants to be sitting or standing. He arches his back or struggles hard to sit up if he's back against a cushion. I have to watch him in the Bumbo seat because he arches his back so much that he almost falls out! I think maybe he is going to be more of a tantrum thrower then Kate. I get lots of comments about how laid back he is and it's true most of the time, but if he gets upset, watch out! He is very social and wants to be held lots and if he's not being held he wants to have Mama and Daddy in his sights. He is a little afraid of Kate because she's very loud these days and is still having trouble treating him gently. I look forward to seeing their relationship blossom as time goes on though! I just have a feeling that they are going to have a very sweet bond. I have felt more then once (maybe impressed by the Lord?) that Sam is really going to care for, protect, and lead Kate. We shall see.

Our biggest accomplishment of the last week has been that we've gotten Sam to start taking naps with no pacifier! He was beginning to show signs that it was disrupting his sleep and I would really be glad for him to not be attached to one. It took 3 days but he now goes down for naps with almost no trouble! He was really struggling with not having it at night and has also not been on a great night schedule so we are still letting him have it at night for now. We'll work on getting rid of it at night after he turns 6 months. It's also very helpful for him to have the paci in the car or when he is getting bored/fussy.

*This next part is probably only interesting to me. I'm just including it for future reference.*

As far as night sleep. It's a work in progress. With my two children I have learned that babies aren't necessarily born knowing how to sleep well! I recently decided to feed him for the "last" time at 7:30 pm and put him to bed right after. I had been getting him back up to eat again at 10:30 pm. He was then waking back up at 3:30 and then not getting up until 8 or 8:30 (well, he actually wakes up again around 6:30 needing a paci or position change then going back to sleep) which is later then I would like him to start the day feeding schedule wise. I know with only feeding him at 7:30 he'll be back up between 12:30 and 2 but I don't mind that. It's really nice to lay him down around the same time as Kate and know that David and I have the rest of the evening and I can go to bed whenever I want rather then having to stay up for that 10:30 feeding. I also dropped his 3rd nap (the evening one) to enable him to be ready for sleep around 7:30/8. That makes for some fussiness in the late evening as he gets tired but it's manageable and sets up a much better pattern overall.

Ok, enough information! Here are some pictures.

Little buddy was dealing with his first bit of diaper rash the other day so I gave him so extended "naked time" to help dry his skin out. You can't use diaper rash creams with cloth diapers and I was hoping to avoid having to put him in disposables to get it cleared up. It seems to have mostly worked! He only has a small patch left and it's not bothering him.

He just loves those hands!

I took this one to show how lush and flowing his hair is becoming:) It is several inches long on top but I just can't bring myself to trim it yet.

I wanted to see if he could sit up inside the Boppy pillow yet, but not really, as you can see.

"Mom, why are you doing this?"

Going at those fingers again!

Giving a half hearted smile while falling over in ernest:)

That's our Sammer at 4 months! He is such a delight to us in ever way!

Good News!

I heard from Kate's new neurologist today that all the genetic disorders they tested for came back negative! Nothing wrong with Kate's genes! :) We are so relieved and grateful to the Lord for this!

I heard from her old doctor yesterday morning that her 24 hour EEG did show continued epileptic activity. They wanted us to increase her old medicine again (which the new doctor is taking Kate off of.) I'm not going to do anything about her medicine until Dr. Wallace (the new neuro) gets the results of the EEG from the old doctor and can review it herself. I am hoping that she will give us a few more details then just "continued epileptic activity". We shall see.

I am just so grateful to the Lord that he has made Kate's genetic make-up healthy. He has been merciful to us!

No News

Well, on Thursday it will be two weeks since Kate had her 24 hour EEG. We still haven't heard anything back yet. We changed doctors (yay!) and neurology practices right after the EEG so that might have something to do with why it's taking so long. They have to transfer over the records.

We are so grateful to have changed to a new neurologist! The other one wasn't bad but we just didn't establish a good rapport and didn't feel like she was one "our team". The Lord so kindly provided us with Dr. Wallace. David met her through a wedding he photographed last summer right when we first realized Kate was having seizures. She offered to see Kate then but we had just gotten in with the first doctor and decided to stay there. Well, David emailed Dr. Wallace right after Kate's 24 hour EEG just telling her things with Kate were bad and asking for any advice. She called him 15 minutes later and offered to see Kate the next Tuesday! Amazing! We really liked her at our visit and she spent well over an hour with us discussing our concerns. She did draw some blood work to test Kate for a number of different genetic disorders that could be causing her collection of symptoms (the developmental delays and some autism type behaviors). We are still waiting on those results too. I am very eager to get those.

Dr. Wallace also is having us change Kate over to a different seizure medication. She has been on the same one for the past 6 months and it seems to be causing some troubles. Kate has developed a lot of difficulty sleeping, and she has lost weight (so sad in a toddler!) It is going to take 8 weeks to get the new medicine (Lamictal) to the right level in her system and she has to stay on the Topamax for 7 of those weeks. So far the transition is going well although I am eager for her to be off the Topamax. The sleep issues we were having were getting to an intolerable level. We were all exhausted and Kate's behavior and mood had plummeted. She was crying a good part of the day and just seemed miserable. She couldn't fall asleep at night and then would wake up around 4am thinking it was time to get up. She would be up and down until 6 before crashing again. A dear and trusted friend who has children with many neurological issues suggested we put her on melatonin to help her sleep. It's naturally occurring in our bodies and sold as a "supplement" over the counter and many people with seizure disorders need to take it to help them sleep. It has been WONDERFUL! Within 10 minutes of giving it to her Kate lays down and goes to sleep. She has woken up at 6am both mornings we've given it to her but goes right back to sleep after we comfort her. The last two days she slept until 10am! She didn't nap today as a result so I'll wake her up tomorrow:) But we are grateful beyond words for her to be sleeping again.

Kate had her developmental screen last week as well (such an exhausting week!) She is behind in all areas of her development and will be getting therapy once a week for now with more possible later on. I'll save all that for another post though.

Ok, this is another heavily medical post but I know there are some who like to stay caught up:) I am mulling over a post about all that God is showing me and doing in me through this time but it just hasn't fully formed in my heart and mind yet. Thank you again for praying. I can never say that enough, truly.